One of the most common questions I hear as a breeder at Delasa Forever Shih Tzu is: "Should I get a male or female Shih Tzu?" The truth is, both sexes make wonderful companions – but there are differences in temperament, size, and care needs. In over 10 years of breeding, I've placed hundreds of puppies and gathered insights from families about how males and females differ in real homes across the USA and Canada.
Quick Answer: Does Gender Really Matter?
Individual personality matters more than gender. I've met cuddly males and independent females, stubborn females and eager-to-please males. However, certain tendencies are worth considering before making your decision.
| Trait | Male Shih Tzu | Female Shih Tzu |
|---|---|---|
| Average Size | 9-16 lbs | 9-16 lbs (similar) |
| Temperament | More playful, goofy, attention-seeking | More independent, dignified, selective |
| Affection Level | Very high – true lap dogs | High – but on their terms |
| Training Ease | Slightly easier – food motivated | Can be more stubborn |
| Marking Behavior | May mark indoors if unneutered | Rarely marks |
| Heat Cycles | None | Twice yearly if unspayed |
| Cost of Spay/Neuter | $150-300 (neuter) | $200-400 (spay) |
Male Shih Tzu: The Goofy, Affectionate Companion
Male Shih Tzus are often described as more openly affectionate, playful, and eager to please. They tend to bond strongly with all family members and are generally more forgiving of mistakes during training.
Pros of Male Shih Tzus:
- Extremely affectionate – true lap dogs
- More consistently playful and energetic
- Often easier to train (highly food motivated)
- No heat cycles or associated mess
- Generally less expensive to neuter than females
- Often more tolerant of children's energy
Cons of Male Shih Tzus:
- May mark territory indoors if not neutered
- Can be more demanding of attention
- May be more likely to roam if unneutered
Female Shih Tzu: The Dignified, Independent Soul
Female Shih Tzus often have a more regal, independent personality. They're loving but on their own terms, and they tend to be more selective about when and where they show affection.
Pros of Female Shih Tzus:
- Often cleaner and more meticulous about house training
- Less likely to mark territory
- Can be more independent and less "clingy"
- Often more serious and focused during training
Cons of Female Shih Tzus:
- Heat cycles twice yearly (if unspayed) – requires management with doggy diapers
- Can be moodier, especially during heat
- More expensive spay surgery
- May be less tolerant of young children's energy
Does Size Differ Between Males and Females?
Unlike some breeds, male and female Shih Tzus are very similar in size. Both typically weigh between 9-16 pounds and stand 8-11 inches tall. Some males may be slightly larger, but there's significant overlap. Choose based on temperament, not size expectations.
Health Considerations by Gender
Both sexes benefit from spaying/neutering around 6-9 months. Health issues are similar between genders, though spayed females eliminate risk of uterine infections (pyometra) and reduce mammary cancer risk. Neutered males reduce risk of testicular cancer and marking behavior. Consult your veterinarian about the optimal timing for your specific puppy.
Which Gender is Better with Children?
Both can be wonderful with children when properly socialized. Male Shih Tzus tend to be more tolerant of rough play, while females may prefer quieter interactions. For families with very young children, many breeders recommend males. For families with older, respectful children, either gender works well. At Delasa Forever Shih Tzu, we socialize all puppies with children before they go home.
Which Gender is Better with Other Pets?
Shih Tzus generally get along with other pets regardless of gender. However, two unneutered males may compete for dominance. A male-female pair often works harmoniously. Females can be more territorial with other females. Early socialization is key for either gender.
The Most Important Factor: Individual Personality
After placing hundreds of Shih Tzu puppies at Delasa Forever Shih Tzu, I've learned that individual personality matters far more than gender. I've seen cuddly females and independent males. The best approach is to meet available puppies and see which personality connects with you. We encourage video calls so you can see each puppy's unique personality before making a decision.
Find Your Perfect Shih Tzu Puppy
At Delasa Forever Shih Tzu, we can help you find the perfect match regardless of gender. View our available Shih Tzu puppies for sale or contact Carolina to discuss your family's needs and which available puppy might be the best fit.
